一辅导作业就血压上升？校长说，掌握好这三点就不慌
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Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">到底是陪还是放手？</span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(87, 149, 226);font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\">陪，怎样才能不影响亲子关系？</strong></span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(87, 149, 226);font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\">如何帮孩子解决注意力不集</strong><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\">中等问题？</strong></span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(87, 149, 226);font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\">如何让孩子意识到学习是自己的事？</strong></span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(87, 149, 226);font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\">从而减少对家长的依赖？</strong></span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">带着这些问题，成成妈请教了</span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">草堂小学西区分校付锦校长</span></p></section></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: center;opacity: 0.35;transform: translate3d(0px, 0px, 1px) rotateX(180deg);\"><section data-lazy-bgimg=\"https://dz.tongchenglife.cn/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/sz_mmbiz_png/DtymDYuyoiclib1TX9vAzibpUCNNznTIz1N4MmxRcicjObEDXvlZsW6HTGevv9DnPvTxBPPgoJOzzTD3MC44FmoDxw/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-fail=\"0\" style=\"outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 677px;height: 20px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;background-position: 50% 50%;background-repeat: 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middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;\"></section></section></section></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;isolation: isolate;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;font-size: 12px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);text-align: center;font-family: Noto Sans CJK SC, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0px;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\"></strong></span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\">成都市草堂小学西区分校</strong></span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0px;\">党支部书记、校长 付锦</strong></span></p></section></section><p powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"padding-right: 14px;padding-left: 14px;outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 1);font-family: Noto Sans CJK SC, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0px;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">付校长把家长对辅导作业的失控情绪总结为“恐辅症”上头。“恐辅”是时下一个新兴的热词，是一种形容当代父母一辅导作业就情绪失控，血压上升的戏谑称谓。那如何才能不再“恐辅”？</span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(87, 149, 226);\">育儿路上父母和孩子的快乐同样重要。</span></strong>电影《学爸》把养娃路上的糟心事当乐子说，生动诠释了当下父母“一面渴望着望子成龙，错把起点当作终点一般的‘鸡娃冲刺’；一面恨铁不成钢，在屡次教导无果、孩子依然出现‘他还是不懂’的不和谐场面时候，血压冲标180”的两难场面。真的这么难吗？<strong style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(87, 149, 226);\">从现象的梳理，到本质的解读，付校长为大家分享了以下干货：</span></strong></span></p></section><p powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;line-height: 0;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;\"></section></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: center;\"><section style=\"padding: 10px;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 643.141px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-shadow: rgb(160, 160, 160) 0px 0px 5px;line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 3px;height: auto;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"padding-right: 7px;padding-left: 7px;outline: 0px;text-align: justify;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 1);font-family: Noto Sans CJK SC, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0px;line-height: 2;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">对于“作业困难户”的现象，家长们先要极大降低心中的焦虑。有句俗话这样讲，“当一个人有问题，那问题的确叫作问题，但当大家都有问题时，问题就可称之为现象、共性。”其实家长们不必一个人在烦恼，其实很多家长都在面对同样的烦恼。</span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">甚至，我们的老师也会有类似的困扰。我们学校一位老师有一个刚上二年级的儿子，七八岁正是小男孩最淘气的年纪，家长平时工作繁忙，能够陪孩子写作业的机会也不多，<strong style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(87, 149, 226);\">难得的陪写作业时间，还常常因为父母老是想掌控孩子的作业进度，害怕他达不到自己心中的要求，用这种不对等、不合适的错误做法，让亲子双方总是因为作业“两败俱急”</span></strong>，父母气得捶胸顿足，孩子气得把自己关小屋。</span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">大家都一样，先给自己一点“松弛感”吧。我们不妨从一言一行中，从身先示范中行动起来。毕竟，行动创造最优解。想，全是问题；做，总有答案。</span></p></section></section></section><p powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Noto Sans CJK SC, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(87, 149, 226);letter-spacing: 0px;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;line-height: 0;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;\"></section></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"padding-right: 14px;padding-left: 14px;outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 1);font-family: Noto Sans CJK SC, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0px;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">其实孩子不愿意完成家庭作业，或者说家长难以辅导孩子完成家庭作业的原因有很多，但归根结底可以将原因归为以下几类：</span></p></section><p powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"margin-right: 14px;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;min-width: 10%;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;align-self: center;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: center;line-height: 0;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 50px;height: auto;\"></section></section></section><section style=\"outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;min-width: 10%;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;align-self: center;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;transform: translate3d(-20px, 0px, 0px);\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 1);font-family: Noto Sans CJK SC, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0px;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\">“理念差异”，你是否真的懂孩子？</strong></span></p></section></section></section></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: center;\"><section style=\"padding: 10px;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 643.141px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-shadow: rgb(160, 160, 160) 0px 0px 5px;line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 3px;height: auto;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"padding-right: 7px;padding-left: 7px;outline: 0px;text-align: justify;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 1);font-family: Noto Sans CJK SC, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0px;line-height: 2;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">孩子的思维模式和成人的存在许多差异，这些差异导致了家长辅导孩子家庭作业时的方式并不是孩子们能够接受的。小学阶段的孩子有强烈的向师性，老师在课堂上一言一行在他们心中奉为“圭臬”。<strong style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(87, 149, 226);\">简单地说，就是孩子只听老师的，不听家长的。</span></strong>有时候，家长在家辅导作业采用的方式、话语和老师不同，这样就会在心理上引发学生的混乱认知，甚至是抵触。</span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(87, 149, 226);\">另外，许多家长在辅导作业时可能更倾向于“打直球”</span></strong>，直接给孩子讲解某道题的某种解题方法。这类家长虽然明白作业题目的逻辑，但不能浅显地将逻辑转化为文字语言给孩子们讲解，这种打直球的方式教育孩子，可能对讲解的某一道题有效，但稍微变换一下题目的已知条件，孩子就又解不出来。</span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(87, 149, 226);\">还有一个误区，就是家长把作业的功能过度的夸张化。</span></strong>觉得一次两次作业没做好，或者不做，孩子的成绩就会一落千丈。甚至会过度焦虑到认为未来直到高中、大学的求学路，甚至人生之路都会因此受影响。因此种来自于内心的恐惧，导致了理念上的偏差。</span></p></section></section></section><p powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"margin-right: 14px;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;min-width: 10%;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;align-self: center;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: center;line-height: 0;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 50px;height: auto;\"></section></section></section><section style=\"outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;min-width: 10%;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;align-self: center;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;transform: translate3d(-20px, 0px, 0px);\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 1);font-family: Noto Sans CJK SC, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0px;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\">“专注程度”，造就问题的最大成因</strong></span></p></section></section></section></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: center;\"><section style=\"padding: 10px;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 643.141px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-shadow: rgb(160, 160, 160) 0px 0px 5px;line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 3px;height: auto;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"padding-right: 7px;padding-left: 7px;outline: 0px;text-align: justify;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 1);font-family: Noto Sans CJK SC, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0px;line-height: 2;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">小孩子天性爱玩，又正好处于小学时期，正是对万事万物充满好奇和探索欲望的阶段。<strong style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(87, 149, 226);\">但过于旺盛的好奇心也导致学生们难以集中注意力专心致志地完成一件事，例如完成他们的作业。</span></strong></span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">写作业的过程中他们极容易受到外界各种事物的干扰，甚至就算外界环境适合他们学习，他们也会自己主动创造令他们分散注意力的条件，如学习很短时间就去卫生间、吃东西、喝水，以各种理由离开书桌，无法专心学习。</span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(87, 149, 226);\">其实，专注力的问题也不全在孩子身上，还有两个普遍存在却容易被忽略的原因，需要我们从自身出发自查自省：</span></strong></span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(87, 149, 226);\">首先是孩子没有可自由支配的时间。</span></strong>有些家长认为孩子在家把作业做完了，回家没事干，我得给他报个班或者买点课外练习册，把他的时间填满。我们想提醒家长朋友们的是：一个没有自由的孩子，是无法养成自觉的习惯的。家长的出发点当然是督促孩子学习，但是对孩子来说却是消极的暗示。他们会解读为：原来我作业做得越快，爸妈就会布置更多，那我慢慢做，消磨一点时间多好。往往造成家长越催促、孩子越拖拉的现象。</span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(87, 149, 226);\">第二个原因更隐蔽，就是家长自己做事就拖延、磨蹭。</span></strong>如果家长发现自己也有这样的毛病，不妨和孩子相互监督，结对纠正。</span></p></section></section></section><p powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"margin-right: 14px;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;min-width: 10%;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;align-self: center;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: center;line-height: 0;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 50px;height: auto;\"></section></section></section><section style=\"outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;min-width: 10%;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;align-self: center;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;transform: translate3d(-20px, 0px, 0px);\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 1);font-family: Noto Sans CJK SC, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0px;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\">“自控力”的认知偏差，被误解的陪伴</strong></span></p></section></section></section></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: center;\"><section style=\"padding: 10px;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 643.141px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-shadow: rgb(160, 160, 160) 0px 0px 5px;line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 3px;height: auto;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"padding-right: 7px;padding-left: 7px;outline: 0px;text-align: justify;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 1);letter-spacing: 0px;line-height: 2;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">很多家长认为作业是孩子自己的事，孩子要独立完成自己的作业。诚然，孩子独立完成作业的确没有问题，<strong style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(87, 149, 226);\">但家长却忽略了小学阶段的孩子还没有足够的自控能力将独立完成作业这件事养成习惯</span></strong>。家长过早地停止干预不但不会促使孩子养成自觉完成作业的习惯，反而会放任孩子向更加不愿意完成作业的方向发展。</span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(87, 149, 226);\">还有一些家长选择了错误的方式陪同孩子学习：孩子写作业，家长玩手机。</span></strong>连家长都难以抵抗手机的诱惑，试问哪一个心智不成熟缺乏自控能力的孩子能不受干扰专心学习呢？</span></p></section></section></section><p powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;line-height: 0;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;\"></section></section><p powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 677px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-bottom: -74px;outline: 0px;opacity: 0.2;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: center;font-size: 90px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-shadow: rgb(177, 192, 210) 4px 4px, rgb(177, 192, 210) -4px 4px, rgb(177, 192, 210) -4px -4px, rgb(177, 192, 210) 4px -4px;line-height: 1;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p></section></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;display: flex;width: 677px;flex-flow: column nowrap;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;z-index: 1;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 677px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: center;font-size: 20px;color: rgb(87, 149, 226);font-family: Noto Sans CJK SC, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0px;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\">理念更新，</strong><strong style=\"outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0px;\">科学方式高效引领</strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;display: flex;width: 677px;flex-flow: column nowrap;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;z-index: 1;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 677px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;background-image: linear-gradient(90deg, rgba(159, 186, 253, 0) 0%, rgb(159, 186, 253) 50%, rgba(159, 186, 253, 0) 100%);\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-top: 2px;outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 677px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: center;font-size: 12px;color: rgb(177, 192, 210);letter-spacing: 10px;line-height: 2.5;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: normal;\">校长支招</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-top: 20px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;justify-content: center;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"padding: 15px;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 656.688px;vertical-align: top;background-color: rgb(230, 243, 255);flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 8px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(74, 53, 53);overflow: hidden;align-self: flex-start;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;\"><section style=\"padding-right: 10px;padding-left: 10px;outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0px;text-align: justify;color: rgb(0, 0, 1);font-family: Noto Sans CJK SC, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">要想为孩子提供真正有帮助的作业辅导，家长就要学会更加科学的教学方式，如引导式教学。<strong style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(87, 149, 226);\">家长可以向专业的老师取取经，</span></strong>学习老师平时的引导式的授课方式、授课风格，并在家庭作业的辅导过程里积极效仿，在潜移默化之中用孩子熟悉的，乐于接受的方式进行引导。</span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">同时，在面对困难的问题时细化成一个个小问题，引导孩子进行思考并主动将这些小问题逐个击破，让孩子学会自我解决问题，进而培养孩子的学习能力。家长若能帮助孩子养成一个更好的学习习惯，孩子将会终身受益。</span></p></section></section></section></section><p powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 677px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-bottom: -74px;outline: 0px;opacity: 0.2;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: center;font-size: 90px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-shadow: rgb(177, 192, 210) 4px 4px, rgb(177, 192, 210) -4px 4px, rgb(177, 192, 210) -4px -4px, rgb(177, 192, 210) 4px -4px;line-height: 1;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p></section></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;display: flex;width: 677px;flex-flow: column nowrap;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;z-index: 1;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 677px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: center;font-size: 20px;color: rgb(87, 149, 226);font-family: Noto Sans CJK SC, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0px;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\">南风效应，“奖励强化”代替听话</strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;display: flex;width: 677px;flex-flow: column nowrap;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;z-index: 1;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 677px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;background-image: linear-gradient(90deg, rgba(159, 186, 253, 0) 0%, rgb(159, 186, 253) 50%, rgba(159, 186, 253, 0) 100%);\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-top: 2px;outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 677px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: center;font-size: 12px;color: rgb(177, 192, 210);letter-spacing: 10px;line-height: 2.5;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: normal;\">校长支招</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-top: 20px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;justify-content: center;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"padding: 15px;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 656.688px;vertical-align: top;background-color: rgb(230, 243, 255);flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 8px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(74, 53, 53);overflow: hidden;align-self: flex-start;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;\"><section style=\"padding-right: 10px;padding-left: 10px;outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0px;text-align: justify;color: rgb(0, 0, 1);font-family: Noto Sans CJK SC, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">小学生仍处于学习生涯的启蒙阶段，并且在孩子尚小的时候更活泼好动，家长应当理性看待孩子在学习过程中的一些厌倦、烦躁等情绪，对孩子要有足够的耐心和爱心，如同温暖的南风，可以让人不知不觉，欣然解开厚重的外套。</span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(87, 149, 226);\">在家庭辅导过程中，我们提倡要以鼓励为主、保护孩子对作业的兴趣。</span></strong>家长可以合理利用一些奖励机制，最好以挑战的形式出现。比如：“积星兑奖”“梦想许愿池”等，让孩子在完成学习任务之余，强化其成就感，培养孩子的学习积极性；反之，可以对孩子进行适当的家庭教育，引导其正确的价值观。</span></p></section></section></section></section><p powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 677px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-bottom: -74px;outline: 0px;opacity: 0.2;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: center;font-size: 90px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-shadow: rgb(177, 192, 210) 4px 4px, rgb(177, 192, 210) -4px 4px, rgb(177, 192, 210) -4px -4px, rgb(177, 192, 210) 4px -4px;line-height: 1;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p></section></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;display: flex;width: 677px;flex-flow: column nowrap;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;z-index: 1;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 677px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: center;font-size: 20px;color: rgb(87, 149, 226);font-family: Noto Sans CJK SC, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0px;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\">时间管理，有效提升专注力</strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;display: flex;width: 677px;flex-flow: column nowrap;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;z-index: 1;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 677px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;background-image: linear-gradient(90deg, rgba(159, 186, 253, 0) 0%, rgb(159, 186, 253) 50%, rgba(159, 186, 253, 0) 100%);\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-top: 2px;outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 677px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: center;font-size: 12px;color: rgb(177, 192, 210);letter-spacing: 10px;line-height: 2.5;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: normal;\">校长支招</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-top: 20px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;justify-content: center;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"padding: 15px;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 656.688px;vertical-align: top;background-color: rgb(230, 243, 255);flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 8px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(74, 53, 53);overflow: hidden;align-self: flex-start;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;\"><section style=\"padding-right: 10px;padding-left: 10px;outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0px;text-align: justify;color: rgb(0, 0, 1);font-family: Noto Sans CJK SC, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">由于孩子对各种事物的好奇，如果不经过家长的正确引导，他们可能会经常走神，注意力不够集中。</span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(87, 149, 226);\">家长能做的首先是为孩子营造一个安静、舒适的学习氛围。</span></strong><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(87, 149, 226);\">同时，要避免让孩子碎片化学习，即边玩边学、学一会玩一会。</span></strong>很多一二年级的孩子回家先玩后做作业，这不是他贪玩，拖拉，是因为这个年龄段的孩子根本没有时间长短的概念。那怎么办呢？虽然没有时间长短的概念，但他们有了顺序的意识。家长可以让孩子按顺序画下或写下每天放学前要完成的任务，引导他把最重要的事放在前面先做，为孩子播下“要事第一”的认知种子。到了三四年级，他就可以规划出每个任务的时间长短了。五六年级，可以让他以周为单位系统安排出每一天，每一个小时做什么。</span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">我们也推荐一些比较好用的的方法，如“番茄时钟法（专注25分钟后休息5分钟为一个番茄时钟，四个番茄时钟后一个长时间的休息。）”“四象限法（把事情分成重要且紧急、重要不紧急、紧急不重要，不紧急也不重要来选择完成）”“吃掉那只青蛙（每天的第一个工作，做最重要的事。如果都重要，就分解出最难的那一部分，先做最难的那部分就叫吃掉那只青蛙）”等方法来为孩子规划学习时间。</span></p></section></section></section></section><p powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 677px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-bottom: -74px;outline: 0px;opacity: 0.2;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: center;font-size: 90px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-shadow: rgb(177, 192, 210) 4px 4px, rgb(177, 192, 210) -4px 4px, rgb(177, 192, 210) -4px -4px, rgb(177, 192, 210) 4px -4px;line-height: 1;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p></section></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;display: flex;width: 677px;flex-flow: column nowrap;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;z-index: 1;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 677px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: center;font-size: 20px;color: rgb(87, 149, 226);font-family: Noto Sans CJK SC, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0px;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\">“表率父母”，创设学习型家庭氛围</strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;display: flex;width: 677px;flex-flow: column nowrap;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;z-index: 1;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 677px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;background-image: linear-gradient(90deg, rgba(159, 186, 253, 0) 0%, rgb(159, 186, 253) 50%, rgba(159, 186, 253, 0) 100%);\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-top: 2px;outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 677px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;text-align: center;font-size: 12px;color: rgb(177, 192, 210);letter-spacing: 10px;line-height: 2.5;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: normal;\">校长支招</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-top: 20px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;justify-content: center;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;\"><section style=\"padding: 15px;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 656.688px;vertical-align: top;background-color: rgb(230, 243, 255);flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 8px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(74, 53, 53);overflow: hidden;align-self: flex-start;\"><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;\"><section style=\"padding-right: 10px;padding-left: 10px;outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0px;text-align: justify;color: rgb(0, 0, 1);font-family: Noto Sans CJK SC, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">俗话说：“父母是孩子的镜子，孩子是父母的影子。”孩子对家长的模仿能力是很强的，家长的言行对孩子的影响不容小觑。倘若当孩子在学习时，家长却在玩手机看电视，孩子自然会受到影响，产生不愿学习的心理。</span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><strong style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(87, 149, 226);\">所以，在孩子学习时，家长可以在旁边工作、学习或者看书，不催促、不紧盯、不打扰。</span></strong>在孩子需要的时候还可以适时搭把手。如此对孩子言传身教，营造一种和谐的家庭学习氛围，间接地告诉孩子终身学习的道理。</span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">与此同时，家长也可以积极创设一个轻松的环境，定期和孩子讨论学习或是作业的问题，比如：先问问他今天学习或作业的感受。一周后再和他讨论：这周学习或写作业有什么特别收获？或者哪些事情会分散你的注意力？下次可以在哪些方面做得更好......</span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">总而言之，家长对孩子的作业辅导是一项非常细致的任务，需要耐心和智慧。<strong style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(87, 149, 226);\">千万不要孩子一做作业，就忍不住指手画脚，甚至又吼又叫。耐心是教育中的稀缺品。孩子成长，家长更要学会成长。</span></strong></span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></span></p><p style=\"outline: 0px;\"><span style=\"outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;\">每个人在每一个人生阶段都在学会各种适应。每一个人，从不适应到适应，这就是真实的成长。</span></p></section></section></section></section><p powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"outline: 0px;\"><br style=\"outline: 0px;\"/></p><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;line-height: 0;\"><section style=\"outline: 0px;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;\"></section></section><section powered-by=\"xiumi.us\" style=\"padding-right: 14px;padding-left: 14px;outline: 0px;font-size: 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